mercredi 14 octobre 2015

My Norwegian love story


 If there is something that I got to be aware of during my stay in Norway among others, it is that “Life is really unpredictable”.

During my stay in Norway I learn a lot about life.
One illustration about the fact that life is quite unpredictable, I am talking here as concerns love and meeting love.  For my concern, love happened to me when least expected. Basically I was at the end of a 1 and half year relationship and I came to Norway after obtaining a positive answer from an internship application I had sent. It was for me a way to move forward and get over that relationship.

At that period, I had one idea in my mind: come to Norway, do the best at my internship and keep the boys away from me for a period and focus 100% on my career (year quite important of the end of my master degree).
The mission was doing quite well until I met my current boyfriend that I will call LH...
Could you imagine that, that evening of April 18th I had been invited to two parties and had quite difficulty at choosing one of them (as always, ndrl)
I took the decision at the tram station I took the first direction I came to. And that direction led me to a party out with a girl I now consider as sister. At that moment I barely knew her but she happened to be such a sunshine and awesome person. Okay don’t get me wrong, I'm not into girls, I just love her very much. And she also played a certain role in my meeting with my boo. Because it happened that she knew him. She had also invited him out to join the party.
Same on his side, that night he was more feeling like staying in and having a relaxing evening home. But he decided to go out... So we basically met in a Café in the center of Oslo. When I saw him I directly told myself: close your eyes and look elsewhere. Because this, what I was seeing was the danger which would be there to distract me from my goal... Until that stage on my mind I didn't know we knew one person in common. Well. It was not going to last longer. Our common friend came and started the presentations. I kinda played the girl uninterested the whole evening. But he, he was quite talkative. So he took me outside in order to have a proper conversation. We talked for a long moment outside the Café with the sweet cold air of a Norwegian Spring (April). And then without me getting what was happening, he took my face with his super soft hands and he kissed me. I didn't really saw it coming. I was quite chocked. First of all because I had heard so many stories and cliché about Norwegians boys who are not that initiative taker and that they kinda needed to drink before being so close socially. LH wasn't drunk. He was sober as a priest. :)

Well let’s go back to the kiss… That kiss was the best kiss I had ever experienced. It was so unique. And I felt a strong feeling when he kissed me. It was like we got connected in a way that is not that easy to describe. After we kissed, we continued the evening with the rest of the group as if nothing was happened. At the end of the evening we said goodbye to each other and I went home on my side and him on his side. When I arrived home I was still in chock about what had just happened earlier. I wasn't ready for that. Still in my heart I was filling quite "high" but the reason as usual was telling me to take it easy and maybe even forget about that night. That didn't last too long in my head. Indeed few minutes after I got home LH sent me a message telling me that he was pleased to meet me and that he hoped we could meet again. I think if I remember well, my reaction was : jumping and laughing in the bathroom. I felt good to read that message and to get cut in my temptation to just forget about it all. So what happened after that is that we started chatting and telling us stories by phone. As a quite busy young man, LH was quite taken in the days following our meeting. So was I too. So we maintained a texting relationship for almost two three weeks after our first meeting and then we finally met for dinner.
He took me to an original and nice Thai restaurant. The atmosphere was unique and so romantic. I was charmed. Okay enough about me.

Concerning LH...
He is a handsome guy. He doesn't let ladies insensible. They will be seduced either by his immeasurable kindness either by his sensitive charm. He is tall, blond with blue eyes and his smile is as cute as the whole character.
We have been together for almost two years, and every time I see him it is like the first time we met. I am totally in love and it feels good to love and be loved.
That feeling is so great and unique that I wish you all to get the chance to experience it in your life.

I love you so much my darling. Always keep that deep in your heart and never ever doubt about it.


July - 2015


Peace & Love to y'all!

July - 2015